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I picked out the First Mate because I was looking for dildos with more girth than I’m used to. The only dildo that fit the bill was realistic. This would prove to be an awkward experience.
Basic Stats
The First Mate is 1.75″ in diameter at its widest and has 7″ of insertable length. It’s harness compatible. It comes in single shore (density) or Firm Core dual density. Both are body safe silicone. The one we have is the single shore, and it stands up on its own. The surface has a bit of an electric charge, attracting dust and lint. A trick I learned in the sex toy party world is to use a bit of corn starch, and Good Vibrations even recommends this on the product page for the dual density version. It rinses off easily before use. Towards the head, the shaft flattens and widens a bit. The head is wide and pronounced, with a defined coronal ridge. Raised veins complete the realistic look.
Her Experience
The First Mate is disturbingly realistic to me. It’s shaped like a dick I’ve fucked before. A dick I caught feelings for. A dick I regret, but will always remember. It’s uncanny. The color isn’t exactly true to life, of course. It’s much more uniformly stiff and firm than its real life version. Yet, the shape is eerily similar to a dick I don’t want to think about. At first I didn’t even want to tell my SO whose, because that was such a painful time in our lives.
I have to be honest, the First Mate is a great dildo. It doesn’t have a curve, but its girth and the coronal ridge tease my G-spot while the wide shaft stretches me in a hauntingly familiar way. When I use a vibrator on my clit, the First Mate locks in place, as if it were meant to be clenched and causes seemingly unending orgasms, especially if I twist it.
I feel so many conflicting emotions when I use this dildo on myself. It’s more like a memory – a guilty pleasure memory full of euphoria and heartbreak all at once.. I’m an honest reviewer, though, and I must report my experiences with the sex toys I’m sent. This, of course, is likely a unique experience to me, so I can confidently recommend the First Mate. In fact, if you have the cash to splurge, upgrade to the dual density version!
Overall
How I feel about this dildo is unique to me. You are unlikely to experience cognitive dissonance while using First Mate. In fact, you’re more likely to have a good time, if its proportions are what you’re looking for. You also have lots of options between the density of the silicone and the colors. It’s fantastic for clenching, thrusting, and prostate stimulation. So if you’re ready to graduate from 1.5″ diameter dildos to something with a little more girth and realism, this is a great buy. The lack of completely cylindrical shape is unique. I’d insert a nautical pun here, but I think that’d be overboard.
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