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This is just a PSA for all guys out there.
If you aren’t getting a great blow job from your lady, part of the problem might not be her… and you might not be the problem either! There might be a third person in the bedroom, so to speak – her ex.
When a girl is into you, she probably doesn’t have her ex on her mind, but her past experiences have made her the blow-job-giver she is today. And believe it or not, her ex probably likes VERY different things than you do. Here are just a few of the things I’ve experienced:
- One guy had balls so sensitive that he HATED having them licked or touched in any way.
One guy wanted it pretty rough – even using teeth (at least a little) was okay with him.
One guy was all about the ass. For him, a bj wasn’t a bj unless my finger was in his ass as well.
One guy needed to pull out of my mouth immediately because he would get really sensitive after cumming.
One guy loved gagging.
To each of those things, I’ve experienced the opposite as well – a guy who loved having his balls licked, a guy who preferred things very gentle, a guy who was weirded out by ass play, a guy who liked to linger in my mouth after cumming, a guy who was grossed out by gagging…
Often, these things (and other things) are found in combination, in a mix and match kind of way. Maybe you’re a guy who likes rough deepthroating with a lot of ass play and gagging. Maybe you’re a guy who enjoys ball play and a lot of slobber. Maybe you’re a guy who wants your prostate massaged as she sucks gently and avoids teeth at all cost.
It’s probably weird to think that the other guy likes something that you absolutely hate, but I assure you that it’s true. Your blog job mirror is out there, and your new girl might have just dated him.
So this advice is really important: BE VOCAL ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT.
When she does something you love, moan a little or say something sexy like, “Right there, baby.” Or tell her what you want outright. When you don’t like something, guide her gently about it. When you’re not in the moment, mention that you don’t like whatever she is doing. Avoid sounding critical – package it in a compliment or make it seem like it is your problem, not hers. For example, if she was too gentle, you can say, “I really loved the moments you got rough with my cock – I’m not super sensitive, so I start to get soft when a girl is too gentle.” Or you can say, “I loved when you licked my balls. I’m not really into the ass thing, but my balls love your tongue.”
I think I give a great blow job, but I haven’t always been awesome on the first night with a new guy. I will be, if you give me a chance.
The bottom line? Don’t assume that your new girl sucks at sucking. It takes some time to learn how a new guy likes it. If she’s willing to learn, she probably isn’t bad at head at all. It’s only the girls who refuse to try that will never truly please you.
